Leo, For what it's worth....my old .69 doesn't have a liner, and I have been shooting this thing since the early 1970's.
Literally thousands of rounds have been fired through the old gun, and she does look a bit worse for wear...but she keeps right on ticking and seldom misses a beat.
After reading your first post, I got out the drill bits and started checking...it is still 1/16" or ~.0625, as far as I can tell.
It has never been smaller than that because it was drilled as soon as I got it, and before I even started shooting it.
I suspect I have replaced no fewer than a dozen flash-hole liners over the years on my own or someone else's guns, and the majority of them were coned from the back....something I just did for grins and giggles, or because someone told me that was the best way to do things.
I do believe the ones I have coned will show wear much faster than one not coned. At the same time, I guess that stands to reason.
Also, after reading your post, and reflecting back over the years, I have come to believe that not all vent liners are created equally, and many simply just give up the ghost for no apparent reason.
Uncle Russ...