Take your stock after finish sanding, and wipe it down with a damp (water) cloth. when you do this, it will raise the grain. Let this dry, and sand with 600 grit paper. Wipe down again with damp cloth, and sand again with 600 grit. Everytime you do this, the grain will raise less and less. I'm guessing 6 to 8 times, but every wood is different. Once the grain stops raising, final sand with 600 and your ready for stain. I did this on my war club, which was curly maple. Take a look.
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