I REALLY don't want to step on anyone's toes here! Everyone had their own ideas and experiences. I'm just going to tell you mine. So please bear with me as I toss out a few thoughts in no particular order.
WW metal - Forget it. Wheel weights aren't what they used to be. Some don't contain any lead and I suspect this will be the trend in the future now that the EPA has closed down the last lead smelting plant in the U.S. Bullets cast from wheel weights will vary in weight and hardness. Balls of different weights will affect the flight of a ball more than hardness. An interesting side note is that the stick-on wheel weights used on mag wheels appear to be pure lead at least for now.
The formula for Lymans #2 Alloy is 90% lead, 5% tin, 5% antimony. I think that is your original question but hear me out.
I've always gotten best results from pure lead when using a PRB in a rifle. Play with the other variables like patch thickness, lube, powder. Using pure lead takes out most of one variable, the bullet weight/hardness. I also weigh the lead balls on a grain scale. Anything that varies beyond about 0.3 grain goes back in the pot. An air void or bit of dross off to one side of center in a ball will cause it to fly erratically because it's out of balance not to mention that a lighter ball will fly faster.
When it comes to lubes, check out Dutch Schoultz's "dry patch" formula. It really makes a difference by taking out another variable, the amount and slickness of the patch lube.
When it comes to how tight a patch/ball should be there are some who claim "the tighter the better" and others who claim superb accuracy from a combo they can run down the bore with two fingers on the ramrod. Given the differences in bores they may both be correct although I tend to doubt the two-fingers crowd. Their idea of "superb" may be different than mine. My experience has been somewhere in the middle. I seem to get best accuracy from a patch/ball that requires firm pressure to force it down the barrel but never having to "pile drive" it down the bore with repeated thumps. Grasp the rod about 6" above the muzzle and push firmly. I've never broken a rod while loading and that 6" Rule is why. Also avoid bouncing the rod off the ball once seated. This will tend to crush the powder under the ball and result in differing burn rates. The finer the powder granules, the faster they burn.
Here's another controversy. Wiping the bore between shots. Benchrest shooters do. Some folks don't. Who do you think gets the best accuracy? I wet a patch, squeeze most of the liquid out, and make one pass down and back out. The idea here is to have as close to the same amount of fouling in the bore as possible for each shot.
I've gone pretty far afield from the hardness of lead but let me prattle on just a bit more. Do all of your load development from a solid rest on a bench. The idea is to see what the rifle is capable of, not how good an offhand shooter you are. Accurate shooting is all about consistency. You will always be the least consistent factor in the mix.
Storm