Nicknames can come from anywhere and tend to stick. Agree that it is usually your "freinds" that give them to you. And it is usually for doing something memorable and stupid.
On the other hand sometimes a nickname can follow you from one group to another. My Dad's handle is "Stoneface" and has been for many years. Goes back to when a college buddy and I had gone to folks place for dinner. After several gut-busting jokes and such circled that table, Chris asked Dad "Mr. H that was funny, why aren't you laughing?" Completely straightfaced he replied "I am" This was the first time Chris had met my Dad, so the event was rather memorable. After that we all started calling him Stoneface.
While on my first ship in the Navy as a young division officer, I had to learn everyone's name twice in the gunnery department - Their real name and nickname. Seems like the ship's gunner only knew them by their nicknames and I had to know who he meant when talking about Short Charge, Budda, Pops, Fang, Runt, etc.
Considering how some people get nicknames, maybe one should be happy to just be called Matt or Rich - means you ain't done anything THAT stupid . . . yet.
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