Kevin, Like you, I am not terribly primitive either. And also like you, I go for the line, if you can't see it, it's OK. These thread counter guys bring me nothing but irritation. And at 78, I have no patience for these pompous clowns. Actually, at 48 I had no patience for them, but it's just gotten worse as I have gotten older.
I have gone to and participated in primitive RDV's and I have gone to and participated in more relaxed ones, and frankly, I have enjoyed the more relaxed ones, like the CdA and the Moscow rendezvous. I went to one down here and it appeared the uniform of the day was Levi's and T-shirts. There was one primitive camp and the rest of the camps were either motor homes or 5th wheel trailers. I'd say a good 40% of the shooting was done with BPCR rifles. Not impressed at all.
I did participate for a few years at Spokane House, which was a trading post from 1810 to 1813, located at 9 Mile on the Spokane River, north of Spokane. It was kind of fun, but it was more primitive than most. A lot of the participants were AMM, so...
I portrayed the American Fur Co. factor
I would say go where you are comfortable being.
John